Herpes is a common viral infection that is caused by Herpes Simplex Virus. It is a noncurable, sexually transmitted disease. Hence, when one is diagnosed as suffering from
Genital Herpes, it comes as a shock and disbelief. Also, one feels devastated and finds it difficult to come to terms with the disclosure. There is a sensation of loneliness and feelings of being ashamed and dirty. One may also feel like murdering the person responsible for infecting you.
All these reactions are normal and it is very important that you give yourself some time to come to terms with the sudden and complete change in your life. As there are many myths regarding sexually transmitted diseases, there is lot of misunderstanding about the disease and how to cope with it. But, when you calm down, you will find that there are many good resources available that can help you in Living with Herpes and coping. To help in Living with Herpes-Coping, there are many counseling centers that provide good information. Counselling can provide many answers to your questions regarding how to deal with the various aspects of your life like socializing, and sexual relations. Along with you, your partner may also need counseling to help cope with the disease and prevent feelings of guilt. You should also get your partner checked if he/she is suffering from Herpes Virus.